1st January 2015
Hello everyone.
Wishing all of you a very happy new year, may this year be full of euphoria for every one!
So it is the first day of the year and a lot of people are excited for it! I'm sure a lot of people are asleep right now, but that's okay, I hope they've had a fun last night. So new year, new resolution. This is a thing I've been observing since childhood. I remember making some of my own, but also remember myself being unable to achieve any of them. Today I asked a bunch of people what shall be their new years resolution? And few of the responses were very interesting. The first person I asked, his response was "I'll work harder to get promoted to a senior level at work!" Okay not a bad resolution, but this is more of a short term goal than a resolution, and I was wondering whether will that even give him some eternal happiness? Still I'd wish you luck and may you get promoted if that's all you want this year. Another friend of mine who's response to my question was, "31st of December I'm going to have my last alcohol, I'll go clean from the 1st of January!" Well my friend, as they say- "the damage is already done!" Why leave now? Although better late than never, and I really hope you achieve it! The third person I asked about his new years resolution, his response was a bombshell. "I will stop fighting with my girlfriend from the 1st of January!" Well, no comments on that one! Wish you luck my friend!
What is a new year resolution? I've never believed in a new years resolution. Resolutions are just like sandcastles. Highly fragile, even the slightest blow of wind will break it down. This blow of wind can be the slightest possible distraction, de motivation or discouragement. You decide not to have alcohol in 2016, well someone might offer you a little, and then you might tell yourself, just one won't do any harm, and there you go! The wind blew away your sandcastle! You won't fight with your girlfriend? That can't be a new year resolution! That has to be an eternal determination, and what if she's wrong and you're right, will you remain quiet? Oh that rhymed!! Anyways, the only message I wanted to convey is, stop making resolutions, stop speaking about what you'll do. Make determinations not just for this year, but for the rest of your life. Make castles of bricks instead of sand.
Once again wishing all of you a very happy new year. Make the best out of 2016.
Thanks for reading.
Pathikrit Sengupta
(pathikritsg@gmail.com)