3rd May 2016
What's up buds!
Assuming all of you're doing just fine, except for the fact that the summer heat is sucking out all the energy and enthusiasm from your body and mind? Same pinch to those who have no Air Conditioners.
Anyways moving forward to the concern that rose in my mind today all of a sudden, which leaves me with no choice but write about it here. Its about how we think about a particular situation of our lives or react to them. How sometimes something can make us sad and upset and make us feel secluded from the crowd. Well 'its just a phase!' That's what I think. Its ironic to see that people who pretend to be very ignorant and negligent about the events happening with or around them, are the ones who're usually affected the most. Sadness or happiness is just the element of a particular phase someone becomes a prey to, all the time! Good times or bad times never stick to us for a long duration. They come and before even we get to act on them, they're gone.
But this isn't the point of my concern. My concern points to the actions one does while going through a phase. When someone is sad he/she tends to avoid everyone, prefers to be all alone, cries, shouts, screams, and usually prefers to do things which aren't preferable. But its the state of mind which makes us act. It becomes almost impossible to act wisely when we're sad or even happy at times. Happiness makes us blind, blind from facts and truths. Although sadness stays with us longer than happiness (That's what happens with me usually and a lot of people around me too! :P).
What is it really? What can be a possible solution to such a concern? Phsycology says that there's no particular solution. Humans will behave the way they'll want to, under the influence of the state of mind. No one can possibly control or tamper the acts. But a set of few simple words might help at times. The statement: 'Its Just A Phase!'
These words might sound very usual, but they aren't. If one understands the message behind this one statement, survival might become a little better and easier I'm sure. And afterall complicated life isn't for people like me ^_^. If you're sad, just tell yourself that 'its just a phase!' And you'll at least know that maybe not the best, but something considerably better might come to you soon. This might bring a slight change in your acts. And if you're happy with something, then you should definitely keep telling yourself that 'its just a phase!' Good times usually don't stick to many people for a long time. This statement will always keep us slightly prepared for anything that alters the happiness in our life, which automatically gives us a slight hold on our acts.
Its pretty simple as I said: 'Its Just a Phase!' This has worked with me pretty well. Has made me a better self analyst. I suggest the same to my friends and dear ones who come up with problems, big or small. Words play a very important role in our behaviour, and these few words set a great example I'm sure. Not that you should impose this, I respect everyone's individualism :P! But theres no harm in trying I assure. After all its just a phase!
Anyways for those who can't afford an air conditioner in this unbeatable summer, drink lots of water and maintain a high glucose intake! Because May has just arrived. And 'Its just a phase' afterall! :P
Thanks for reading!
Pathikrit Sengupta
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